December 05, 2004

accident

I have been on edge for the last few days and it's really hard for me to deal with this. What do you say to parents who's kid just had a major accident!? A friend of Carl and I was involved in a frontal accident. He is barely 18yo, is a rock climbing maniac and was a burst of energy. He is in the coma right now with a fractured hip and perforated lung. My stomach has been in knots since I have learned on this accident on friday. Ten days or so, there was an accident on the news in the small area David is from, Carl said I bet it's him, the accident and I of course, brushed it off. Come on there are so many white civic cars in the world. He was right, I was not, my heart aches for his parents only days before Christmas.We were going to see David again when we start working on the road in january, he is such a great guy. It pains me so much you have no idea. :(


The second hat is done and keeping Carl's ears warm and toasty. :) Hat was quick and easy to do, I finished it on the way to our second craft show yesterday. Since friday I have been to three shows and they all had something great to offer. The main show in Montreal is always a pleasure to shop at, to go in in free and it lasts a few weeks, I know I will be back before it ends. We went to a craft show with a purpose after the kids skating lesson (yes, Zoe needs to start an intro to private lessons says our trusted skating expert friend!), we went to Rosalie Jette school, which is a school for you teen moms to finish their high school and learn a bit how to become a mom at such a young age.

I have started a third that I hope will be done by tonight, I really want to give it to the intended child tomorrow. I have "adopted" a kid from Zoe's school to knit for, she should receive hat, mittens and scarf but I'm a tad late on my schedule and was hoping she would get it all by monday, I started knitting the hat late last night. LOL! I am recycling some yarn from a project that didn't go too well, thrum socks sounded like a good idea until I got into making the actual thrums. ;) So anyway, I have just one ball of this pastel-ish color, we'll see how much I can knit out of it. I'd love to use Kate's quick and easy mitten pattern but I am using an aran weigth yarn and won't go into fudging the numbers to make it fit the yarn. I'd end up with something totally wrong. :-P

Posted by Jo at December 5, 2004 11:11 AM
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I am so sorry to hear of your friend, Jo. And give Carl my condolences also. As for what to say to the parents....I think letting people know you care and you hurt for them is the only thing you can do. Let them know that you sincerely wish to help if you can. So sorry. Posted by: Amy at December 5, 2004 03:08 PM
So sorry to hear about your friend. That kind of thing is never easy to deal with. I'll say a little prayer!! ^_^ Posted by: lana at December 5, 2004 05:32 PM
i'm sorry to hear about your friend's son.. i think a nice card to say you are thinking of all of them would be good.. a call , even if you can catch them @ home, involves energy they don't have right now being focused on their son.. i will keep them in my thoughts and hope everything works out o.k... Posted by: martina at December 5, 2004 09:56 PM